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"At that point I had already lost, I thought I had set aside such petty pride. To be proud of neither myself or others, I chose that path didn't I?"

- Toji's last moments as he remembers his wife.

Toji x Megumi's Mother is the het ship between Toji Fushiguro and Megumi's mother from the Jujutsu Kaisen fandom.

Canon
Toji Fushiguro is a calm and confident non-curse user apart of the Zenin clan. He is very sarcastic and seems to enjoy conversations with others as long as it pertains to himself. He exchanged banter with his enemies and is seen to be very nonchalant. While there is not much known about Megumi's mother and the relationship between Toji and his wife, so much that even her name is unknown, It was shown that Toji deeply cared for his wife and was the only one he ever genuinely loved. She was the one who kept him happy and made him abandon his old habits of being a freeloader. After her death, it had greatly damaged Toji and those habits came back to him. Despite being with countless women and even marrying Tsumiki's mother and taking her name, Toji never truly loved anyone as much as he loved Megumi's mother.

Whilst fighting Satoru Gojo in chapter 75, Toji has a flashback of his wife and son, Megumi. Megumi's mother looks happy as she holds her son in her arms when he was just a little baby. This memory seems to be very dear to Toji as it appeared during his final moments in Gojo's past arc.

Gege once said during a character poll that Megumi's mother was the person Toji gave himself wholly to.

Children
Toji and his wife have an only son, Megumi. Megumi is a rather quiet, blunt and often times a moody young jujutsu sorcerer who is currently under the care of Satoru Gojo. Satoru took him in when he was just a child along with his step-sister, Tsumiki. Satoru is also Toji's enemy and the person who had killed him in the past.

Megumi has met Toji on several occasions both when he was young and old. However Megumi fails to recognize his father as he has been absent from his life for a long time. Megumi also says to Gojo that he doesn't care about where his father is and later revealed during his fight with Ryoumen Sukuna that Toji had given him the name 'Megumi' (which means 'blessing') without even knowing his gender. As for his mother, he was just a baby when she died.

Fanon
This ship doesn't have the biggest fanbase yet due to Megumi's mother being a mystery. However it is greatly enjoyed and loved in many comics and fanarts including Toji and his wife taking care of Megumi as a little kid. It is also a background and a side-pairing in many modern day au fanfiction for ItaFushi or FushiKugi fanfiction.

This ship is also largely popular in the Japananese and Korean fandom as it has many fanarts and pieces dedicated to it. Despite not having a proper ship name yet, Toji and his wife are widely appreciated.

A song chosen for the characters is Call Your Name from the Attack On Titan fandom. As many fans think, this is a song that suits Toji's feelings about his wife and her death.

The ship was later popularized by @_neimana on Twitter who drew fanart of the two cuddling together, and @DDub1618 who draws daily comics and illustrations of them together.

Fandom
FAN FICTION

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Trivia

 * Gege refers to Toji as "PapaGuro" and Toji's wife as "Megumi Mama"
 * In a character poll for Jujutsu Kaisen, Gege commented "Megumi's biological mother and the person Toji gave himself wholly to" on the poll for Megumi's mother.
 * On Toji's character introduction page in chapter 79, it was stated that he became unstable while with the Zenin family, as it was his source of stress. But he calmed down thanks to Megumi's mother. However, she died shortly after Megumi was born, causing Toji to return to that state.
 * In the translation of Megumi's mother's character poll, the translation "the person Toji gave himself wholly to"「心を許す」only has two meanings: ”to trust” and ”to relax one's guard”.