Stelena

"If you walk away, it's for you because I know what I want. Stefan, I love you!"

- Elena to Stefan

Stelena is the het ship between Elena Gilbert and Stefan Salvatore from the The Vampire Diaries fandom.

TV Series
Stefan and Elena first met when he returned to town to get to know Elena after saving her from a car accident. He went to her school and the two bumped into each other in the hallway where they were both mesmerized by the other, and had trouble maintaining a conversation without getting tongue-tied. After school, Elena sees Stefan again when she runs into him at the cemetery. The two keep gazing at each other like before, and eventually, Elena introduces herself. Throughout Season 1 the two maintained a beautiful relationship, It was only when Elena got suspicious of Stefan where it hit a rocky patch. Elena believed he was something abnormal and demanded to know what he was, and Stefan admitted that he was a vampire. She was shocked and afraid at the revelation and ran back home, but Stefan went to see her using his supernatural abilities. He assured her he would never do anything to hurt her and tried to explain the situation, but ultimately because Elena asked him to, he left. After Vicki's death, Elena said to Stefan that a part of her wished she could forget meeting him, but no matter how much she was scared, she couldn't lose the way she felt about him. Some time after, deciding to talk to him, Elena went to Stefan's house and encountered Lexi, who had just gotten out of the shower. Elena asked where Stefan was, and Lexi replied that he was in the shower. Misunderstanding, Elena left. Stefan came to her house that evening and realized that she probably thought Lexi was his rebound, and explained that she was a 350 year old vampire and his best friend, who came to Mystic Falls to celebrate his 162nd birthday. He asks Elena why she came by, but she tells him it was a mistake. Before he leaves, Stefan asks her if she needs a ride to Caroline's party. Elena says she's not going, and tells Stefan to have a good time. She later changes her mind and goes to Caroline's party, where she is approached by Lexi. They quickly bond and become friends, and Lexi encourages Elena's feelings for Stefan, saying, “When it's real, you can't walk way.” That night, Damon killed Lexi. This caused Stefan to isolate himself from Elena, telling her she was right to not see him anymore. After the two managed to figure things out, when Stefan tried to leave town for her safety, she told him that was not his decision to make and that she loved him. Hearing her confession, Stefan kissed her. They went inside the Salvatore Boarding House where Stefan hid his face so Elena couldn't see him him as a vampire, but she gently turned him around and touched his face, telling him not to hide from her. They shared another kiss and spent their first night together. Later, Stefan went to go get her a cup of water and left Elena alone in his room. She came across his photo of Katherine and was shocked at how much she looked like her. Heartbroken and confused, she took off her necklace and left. Stefan soon came back and found Elena's necklace on Katherine's photo and realized what happened.

That morning Stefan called Elena to try and explain everything, but instead of Elena, it was Damon who answered the phone. Stefan warned Damon not to hurt Elena and spent the rest of the day waiting for her to come home. When Elena came back, she angrily asked Stefan who he was to her and he assured her he did not think of her as Katherine. He admitted that before they met, he had followed Elena for some time to investigate if she was Katherine and tried to learn all he could about her to figure out why they looked so much alike. Stefan revealed that Elena was adopted and that could've played a part in her relation to Katherine. After the two discussed more about her family, Stefan embraced Elena and said he loved her, and she made him promise not to keep secrets from her anymore.

Wanting their lives to be normal for once, the two decided to go on a double date with Matt and Caroline at the Mystic Grill. While walking back from the bathroom, a man grabbed Elena's arm and called her “Katherine” but said he mistook her for someone else when he heard Caroline call her “Elena.” When Elena informed Stefan of what had happened, he quickly scoured the bar, but the man had already left. When he was taken and tortured by Frederick (the man in the bar), Damon and Alaric worked together to save him. Elena told Damon she was coming with them to get Stefan out, but Damon believed it would be too risky. Despite his warning, Elena went into the house with a vervain dart and was scolded by Damon, who got in first. Elena took Stefan away from the house and to the car, but they were attacked by Frederick who stuck a branch in Stefan, badly wounding him. Elena shot Frederick with a vervain dart and took out the branch, but seeing that Stefan was severely weak, she let him to drink her blood to get stronger. Stefan refused, but eventually gave in and ferociously killed Frederick. His behavior had frightened Elena, as she had never seen him like that before. When they got back to the Boarding House, Elena blamed herself for making him drink her blood, but Stefan interjected and said she was saving his life. Elena believed he had gone back to normal but the memory was still unsettling. Unknown to her however, Stefan had grown a craving for human blood.

At the Founder's Day party, Elena grew worried for Stefan as he began to act more unusual throughout the night. When she went home, she was caught off guard when he was already there waiting for her. He explained that his hunger for blood was now stronger than ever and confessed that he wanted to feed on someone and it took everything in him not to- and all he could think about was to be truthful to Elena and not hide things from her like he promised. When she tried to help him, Stefan backed away and said he was afraid of what he could do to her. Elena told him she wasn't, and hugged Stefan. When he returned to the Boarding House, Damon talked to him for a while before leaving a cup of human blood near him. After he left, Stefan took the cup and drank it.

Stefan was Elena's escort to the Miss Mystic Falls Pageant, but his craving for blood led him to steal from the Hospital blood bank. He tried to keep his bloodlust a secret from Elena, but she eventually found out through Damon. Stefan walked in on the conversation but his attempt to assure Elena that he was fine failed. He went into the bathroom frustrated and broke the mirror on the wall before getting interrupted by Amber Bradley, another contestant. He compelled her to not be afraid and took her away from the event, leading Damon to be Elena's escort. Stefan remained confused and angry and realized the human blood was doing something to him, so he compelled Amber to be frightened and run. Unfortunately the blood still had him out of control, and he caught up and fed on her again. Before he could kill her, Elena arrived alongside Bonnie and Damon and yelled at him to stop. Horrified at what he had done, Stefan ran away.

For his own good, Elena went to Alaric and asked for one of his vervain darts, which she injected into Stefan to weaken him. She and Damon locked Stefan in the basement until the human blood left his system. Stefan was guilt-ridden about the recent events and wanted to die. He refused to drink the animal blood he was given and Damon explained to Elena how they had become vampires: Stefan had transformed first and forced Damon to do so afterwards. Stefan believed that he was responsible for making a monster out of his brother and every bad thing that had happened was his fault. He tried to scare Elena away, but was unsuccessful. She left the cell door open so when he was ready to talk, he could come upstairs. Instead, Stefan ran and left his daylight ring behind and went to the quarry where he awaited the sun to rise so he could die. When she found him, Stefan confessed to Elena how he much guilt and pain he felt for everything he'd done, and the constant craving for blood terrified him because he may not be able to control it any longer and hurt her. Elena assured him that would never happen and confided in Stefan about the night she lost her parents. She tried to convince him not to give up and put the daylight ring in his hand, saying it was his decision to wait for the sun to rise and die, or wear the ring and fight. She started to walk away, but Stefan called out to her and put the ring back on.

Not long afterwards, Elena met her birth mother Isobel who asked for a device that Katherine had wanted. Elena eventually gave it to her believing that Bonnie had removed the spell on it. At the Founder's Day Parade, for the most part, Elena and Stefan had a good time and enjoyed the festivities before Damon arrived to tell them that the tomb vampires were in the crowd wanting revenge on the founding families. Elena asked Stefan to find Jeremy, when the Gilbert device, a weapon that was created to harm vampires, was set off by John Gilbert. Stefan was affected alongside all the vampires and Elena, with the help of Alaric, took him to safety. Once the device stopped, she helped Stefan save Damon from burning to death with the help of Bonnie (who agreed to save him only for Elena); cast a spell to calm the fire enough for Stefan to retrieve him. At the end of the night, Elena went back to school to get her clothes only to find that someone had taken them. She told Stefan this on the phone as she went home, and entered the house where she heard a noise coming from the kitchen.

Season 2
In Season 2, Katherine returned to town and caused chaos between Stefan, Damon and Elena. At the end of The Return, upset that Katherine never loved him, Damon tried to kiss Elena but she pushed him away and told him she loved Stefan and it was always going to be Stefan. This upset Damon even more and he snapped Jeremy's neck and left. Stefan arrived almost immediately and comforted Elena as she held her brother. Eventually, Katherine forced Stefan and Elena to break up by threatening Elena's family. Even after Katherine sealed in a tomb with a spell that prevented her from escaping, Elena told Stefan that while she still loved him, she needed to wake up and know that her family was safe. That night, she was kidnapped and delivered to Elijah Mikaelson, an Original vampire. Finding out she was missing, Stefan (and Damon) found Elena and rescued her, but it was soon revealed that she was in grave danger. Klaus Mikaelson, the oldest Original in the history of time, was after her to break his curse. In the tomb, Jeremy attempted to retrieve the moonstone from Katherine, but she attacked him and this forced Stefan to intervene. He tossed him out of Katherine's reach, trapping himself in the tomb. As soon as she found out, Elena accepted Elijah's deal and asked him only one thing in return: to free Stefan from the tomb. When he was freed, Stefan reunited with Elena and the two rekindled their relationship.

Elijah had a plan to save Elena from dying by using an elixir that would bring the doppëlganger back to life after death. Damon didn't trust Elijah's plan to save Elena, and forced her to drink his blood so she could come back as a vampire. Stefan rushed in and shoved Damon away from her, furious that he of all people took away her choice. He later took Elena on a hike to let her enjoy the last few hours of her life as a human, and at the end of the day, Elena broke down in tears as she confessed that she had no desire to ever be a vampire. Returning to the Boarding House, Klaus was there waiting for her. Stefan refused to let her go, but Elena stopped him before Klaus could do anything. She told him she loved him and asked him to close his eyes, when he did, Klaus took Elena and they disappeared.

Because of Damon's interference in his original plan, Klaus kidnapped Elena's aunt, Jenna, and used her as the vampire for the ritual. Stefan tried to save Jenna, but failed. Klaus then stabbed him in the stomach with a wooden stake and the wound rendered him unable to do anything to save Elena.

In the finale, Elena is brought back to life by Bonnie, and in order to save her and Damon, Stefan made a deal with Klaus and left town with him.

Season 3
In Season 3, Elena desperately tried searching for Stefan despite everyone else's efforts to get her to move on. In The End of the Affair, she finally found him and hid in his apartment to hide from Klaus. Stefan noticed her in the storage and saved her life by distracting Klaus, and later when they reunited, Elena tried to shoot Stefan with a vervain dart but he was faster and avoided her attack. He said that he didn't want to come back and he wanted to protect her this way. In Chicago, Klaus goes to Gloria (a witch) to find out why his hybrids weren't turning out the way he planned, and discovers that Stefan was hiding the fact that the Petrova doppelgänger (Elena) was still alive. In The Reckoning, Klaus compelled Stefan to kill Elena and was surprised when he showed great strength by fighting the compulsion off and telling her to run. Unfortunately, Klaus then used compulsion one last time and ordered Stefan to turn his humanity off. He was forced to attack Elena, and almost killed her. In Smells Like Teen Spirit, he goes back to school and moves back to the Boarding House to stay behind and keep an eye on Elena to "guard" her for Klaus. When she distracts Stefan by falling off the bleachers, he saves her. Elena tells him “I knew you'd catch me” before Alaric shoots him with a vervain arrow. Together Alaric, Damon and Elena lock Stefan up and try and restore his humanity. Ultimately, the plan failed, but Elena never gave up believing that there was hope for Stefan. In Our Town, in an effort to get Klaus to remove the hybrids from Mystic Falls, Stefan kidnapped Elena and fed her his blood, telling Klaus that if he didn't tell his hybrids to back off he would drive off Wickery Bridge so that Elena would die and turn into a vampire. At first Klaus didn't believe he'd do anything to hurt Elena, but eventually agreed to call off the hybrids. Elena jumped out of the car and yelled tearfully at Stefan, asking him how he could drive over that bridge knowing that her parents had died and that she had almost died with them. Stefan responded saying that destroying Klaus is all he had left but Elena countered that he had her. He replied that he lost her the minute he left town with Klaus and she just hadn't admitted that to herself yet. When she asked if he was doing all this to make her hate him, Stefan said he didn't care what she thought of him anymore.

In The Ties That Bind, Elena revealed she kissed Damon since she felt guilty Stefan was unaware of it. Clearly pained and stunned by the information, Stefan walked away and said nothing. Elena followed him and begged him to say something, and he apologized for what he did to her on the bridge, admitting that he went too far. But he scolded Elena for lying about going to see Abby as it was too dangerous for her to do so while Klaus was still around. Elena understood his concern, and told him she never intended to kiss Damon. Stefan, still hurt, said she was better than both of them before driving away in his car. He then went back to the Boarding House and punched Damon for kissing Elena. At the Mikaelson ball, Elena and Stefan danced together and and shared a romantic moment. At the end of the night, she pleaded with him to feel something and he confessed that he hated himself for what he did to her, and if he let himself care then all he'd feel is pain. In the finale, she rejects Damon and chooses Stefan, and their relationship was rekindled and lasted at the beginning of Season 4. When Elena was still human, she told Stefan that she she loved him and she chose him, and no matter what happened next, out of all the choices she'd made being in love with him was the best one.

Elena and Stefan's love for each other is the most recurring theme in The Vampire Diaries. The two formed a strong, beautiful and deep relationship that even many of their enemies praised. When Klaus turned off Stefan's humanity and ordered him to kill Elena, Stefan fought back and refused his order until he had to be compelled by Klaus to perform the order. Klaus even commented on their relationship, stating, “that kind of love never dies.” even Katherine Pierce, who had been convinced that Stefan would love her again, admitted that even with one night or an eternity Stefan would never look at her the same way he looked at Elena.

Another recurring theme is their supportive and positive relationship. Even broken up the two still loved each other and understood one another better than anyone else. When Silas locked Stefan up in a well for the whole summer, the only thing that kept Stefan from turning off his humanity were his thoughts of Elena. When Caroline turned off his humanity, he asked only Elena to bring him back, and when they fought, Stefan said the one thing that kept him from turning it off was her. This recurring theme did not only happen with Stefan however. Silas compelled Elena and made her torture Damon, and the only thing that could break her out of compulsion were her thoughts of Stefan. When Damon forced Elena to turn off her humanity after Jeremy's death, he was not able to help her after turning it back on while Stefan was. Many times have they also saved each other's lives. When Vicki set Alaric's car on fire, Elena was trapped inside along with Stefan, who was knocked out by vervain. She called out for him, and he woke up after hearing her voice. He murmured Elena's name and when he realized she was in danger, even in his weakened state, he used all his strength to kick the trunk door off it's hinges so that Elena could get out safely before the car exploded. The only time Stefan did not save Elena was when she asked him not to, and he respected her choice regardless of how much he wanted to go against her wishes.

"She's the love of my life. I'd go back to her in a heartbeat."

- Stefan about Elena

In the last episode of The Vampire Diaries, Stefan and Elena share an emotional goodbye before his death.

Novels
In contrast to her TV-Show counterpart, novel Elena Gilbert was the Queen of her High School. The girl every boy wanted and every girl was jealous of. When she saw a guy who interested her, she got him with no questions asked. Elena soon met Stefan, a handsome foreigner, and tried to act cute and bubbly to get him, however she was stunned when he didn't pay any attention to her. As the Queen, she was frustrated that one person didn't pay her any attention and made it her mission to get Stefan, solely for the purpose of having him. Tired of hiding from the world, Stefan had returned to Fell's Church and eventually met Elena. Guilt-ridden about what had happened in the past, he avoided Elena after seeing how much she looked like his former lover, Katherine von Swartzchild. When Elena noticed for the first time how sad and lonely Stefan looked, in that moment, she realized that she was more emotionally involved with him. After the death of Elizabeth and Thomas Gilbert, Elena hid her tremendous loneliness and grief all the time, only showing it to those close to her like Bonnie and Meredith. When she realized that Stefan had felt the way she had, lost and alone, she connected with him on a more genuine level. When Elena found out that he was a vampire, initially she was afraid of him and tried to run, but after he saved her life, she stayed and asked him to explain everything. Stefan told her about Katherine's death, how he he blamed himself for it, how he and his brother had killed one another and how much he regretted everything that happened. Elena tried to help him, but Stefan pushed her away in fear of hurting her. He tried to scare her off for her own good, but to no avail.

"(...) “You don't know what you're talking about!” He was standing rigid, his face furious, his eyes anguished. “If I once let go, what's to keep me from changing you, or killing you? The passion is stronger than you can imagine. Don't you understand yet what I am, what I can do?” She stood there and looked at him quietly, her chin raised slightly. It seemed to enrage him. “Haven't you seen enough yet? Or do I have to show you more? Can't you picture what I might do to you?” He strode over to the cold fireplace and snatched out a long piece of wood, thicker than both Elena's wrists together. With one motion, he snapped it in two like a match stick. “Your fragile bones,” he said. Across the room was a pillow from the bed; he caught it up and with a slash of his nails left the silk cover in ribbons. “Your soft skin.” Then he moved toward Elena with preternatural quickness; he was there and had hold of her shoulders before she knew what was happening. He stared into her face a moment, then, with a savage hiss that raised the hairs at the nape of her neck, drew his lips back. It was the same snarl she'd seen on the roof, those white teeth bared, the canines grown to unbelievable length and sharpness. They were the fangs of a predator, a hunter. “Your white neck,” he said in a distorted voice. Elena stood paralyzed another instant, gazing as if compelled into that chilling visage, and then something deep in her unconscious took over. She reached up within the restraining circle of his arms and caught his face between her two hands. His cheeks were cool against her palms. She held him that way, softly, so softly, as if to reprove his hard grip on her bare shoulders. And she saw the confusion slowly come to his face, as he realized she was not doing it to fight him or to shove him away. Elena waited until that confusion reached his eyes, shattering his gaze, becoming almost a look of pleading. She knew that her own face was fearless, soft yet intense, her lips slightly parted. They were both breathing quickly now, together, in rhythm. Elena could feel it when he started to shake, trembling as he had when the memories of Katherine had become too much to bear. Then, very gently and deliberately, she drew that snarling mouth down to her own. He tried to oppose her. But her gentleness was stronger than all his inhuman strength. She shut her eyes and thought only of Stefan, not of the dreadful things she had learned tonight but of Stefan, who had stroked her hair as lightly as if she might break in his hands. She thought of that, and she kissed the predatory mouth that had threatened her a few minutes ago. She felt the change, the transformation in his mouth as he yielded, responding helplessly to her, meeting her soft kisses with equal softness. She felt the shudder go through Stefan's body as the hard grip on her shoulders softened, too, becoming an embrace. And she knew she'd won. "You will never hurt me," she whispered."

- Stefan and Elena, "The Awakening"

Moments

 * In Unpleasantville, Elena and Stefan dance together at the Mystic Falls High party.
 * In Children of the Damned, knowing that he can't come out of the tomb that is meant to seal vampires, Stefan goes in to save Elena anyway.
 * In Let The Right One In, knowing she might possibly die, Elena saves Stefan from Frederick, and lets him feed on her.
 * When asked to describe Elena, Stefan said that she was warm and kind, and he forgot who he really was around her.
 * In Season 1, Stefan brings Elena flowers.
 * Elena talked to Stefan about her mother as he cooked for her.
 * Stefan and Elena constantly protect each other throughout Season 1 of The Vampire Diaries.
 * When Stefan can't control his bloodlust after he takes Elena's human blood in Let The Right On In, he does everything in his power to restrain himself from hurting Elena. Despite knowing he is dangerous to be around, Elena saves Stefan no matter the cost anyway.

Quotes
"Well crazy or not, that kind of love never dies."

- Klaus about Stefan and Elena "Now this is fascinating- I've never seen this before. The only thing stronger than your craving for blood, is your love for this one girl."

- Klaus to Stefan "I loved her more than I ever thought I could love somebody else."

- Stefan about Elena

"Dear Diary, this morning is different. There is change. I can sense it. I can feel it. For once, I don't regret the day before it begins. I will see him again. For the first time in a long time, I feel good."

- Elena in her diary about Stefan

"I'm awake. For the first time in a long time, I feel completely and undeniably wide awake. I welcome the day. I will see her again."

- Stefan in his diary about Elena

"Can you hear me? (Stefan nods) Thanks for coming. I'm nervous... but I'm happy that you're here. (Elena looks at him) I love you. (Stefan mouths I love you)."

- Elena and Stefan in "Isobel"

"If It was my choice, I'd wanna be with you forever."

- Stefan to Elena

"I love STEFAN, it's always gonna be Stefan!"

- Elena to Damon in Season 2

"Yeah. I get it. It's always gonna be Stefan."

- Damon to Elena in Season 3

"As long as Stefan is in the way, you will never be with Elena."

- Qetsiyah to Damon

"No. I don't think we'd get together if you were still human. You had a choice. You chose Stefan. Human you was on your way home to him."

- Damon to Elena

"Must be hard trying to live up to Stefan. I remember when I compelled him to feed on Elena. He fought so hard he actually managed to resist. Now, that's love."

- Klaus to Damon

"I love him, Damon. He came into my life when I needed someone and I fell for him instantly. No matter what I feel for you, I..I never unfell for him."

- Elena

"Stefan is your soulmate!"

- Caroline to Elena

"Do you wanna know why I was even on that bridge? I was coming back for you Stefan. I had to choose... I picked you. Because I love you. No matter what happens, it's the best choice I ever made. God, sucks that I can't see you right now."

- Elena

"I don't see a fairytale ending for you. All I see is Stefan and Elena. I think you see the same thing."

- Klaus to Damon

"We have to take these moments, Elena. What Katherine did to Caroline could just be the beginning and there are things with Tyler's family that we don't even understand yet and there's always the "D" word but I came back to this town to start a life with you. We can't forget to live it."

- Stefan to Elena in "Brave New World"

"There's the girl with the necklace. You love her. You'd do anything for her."

- Gloria to Stefan about Elena

"You don’t know what it’s like being in love with you. You know, when you and I were together, every single atom in my body told me that it was the right thing, that we were the perfect fit. And that kind of love, it can change your whole life."

- Stefan to Elena "Thank you for bumping into me that day in the hallway. I never thought I could be happy again and then I met you. You changed everything for me. You... you quite literally saved my life. I love you so much."

- Elena to Stefan

Behind The Scenes
"What this (Stefan and Elena's relationship) is about, it's that love is eternal. And that's an universal and timeless theme."

- Kevin Williamson.

"We always said in the Pilot it's a girl who feels dead inside, and a boy who IS dead inside, and how they bring each other back to life."

- Julie Plec on Stefan and Elena.

"For me personally I like the scene when.. there was this scene in Season 1 when my- I was afraid- ashamed to be a vampire in front of Elena. And she.. my eyes were turning veiny and I was so embarrassed I kept turning away and she kept touching my eyes and being like "It's okay." it made me- it was very emotional. I really like that scene."

- Paul Wesley Toronto Comic Con 2012. "It is the most romantic moment of the series. It's a guy trying so hard to hold onto to his humanity through his love for this one girl- and watching as it gets ripped out of him. And we went back and said: Make it epic. Make it sad and beautiful, use the love cue that Stefan and Elena have, use that cue, not the scary cue."

- Julie Plec on Season 3 Episode 5.

"Oh yeah. Caroline is still a Stelena fan."

- Candice King on Caroline. "The first couple I shipped on the show was Stefan and Elena."

- Candice King. "I think it's so beautiful that.. I mean, Elena really is Stefan's true love."

- Candice King. "Caroline is very much a Stelena shipper. I think she really has seen the reasons in which Elena has fallen for him and she sees that he can protect her and bring a good side of her out. She sees Stefan as much more protective and you know a good person to be with."

- Candice King on Caroline. "Of course. If Damon and Elena get together I'm gonna get very jealous. I don't know what's going to happen with that, but I think Elena's true love is Stefan. Speaking from an objective place I really believe that it's her true love. And as charming and good looking as Damon is.. I think it'd be more of a fling."

- Paul Wesley.

"He's madly in love with Elena. And.. umm.. he .. That's his girl, Elena. She's his one sort of light at the end of the tunnel."

- Paul Wesley on Stefan.

"I think Elena's true love is Stefan. Speaking from an objective place, I really believe that um.. it’s a true love."

- Paul Wesley on Elena.

"For the Pilot and the TV Series to work, the relationship between Elena and Stefan had to be magic. I said to myself “this is phenomenal,” there is real chemistry between Paul Wesley and Nina Dobrev."

- Bob Levy.

"He had a friend like Lexi, but I think something happened and he became very reclusive and I don’t know when that occurred but Elena certainly brought him out of that funk. Stefan is this sort of hopeless romantic and Elena, she’s the love of his life."

- Paul Wesley on Stefan.

"And then she meets Stefan and there is something about him that makes her feel comfortable, like he understands."

- Nina Dobrev on Elena. "Between Stefan and Elena, it's just so difficult, they love each other; they can't be away from one another."

- Nina Dobrev on Stelena. "Stefan, who's.. at the beginning she just think he's a great guy who's obviously attractive and intelligent and she just has great time around him, but they also had this unspoken connection and chemistry that neither of them can just really explain. But they just.. they just jive at another level."

- Nina Dobrev about Stefan and Elena.

"With Stefan, whenever he's around she's just.. it's almost like she melts into his arms and she feels somewhat relieved."

- Nina Dobrev on Stefan and Elena.

"Well I'm biased. I think that deep down she's in love with a person that Stefan is. She loves the type of... She loves warm-hearted people who are loving. That's the person that she fell in love with."

- Nina Dobrev on who Elena loves between Stefan and Damon.

"Marry Stefan."

- Nina Dobrev playing “Kiss, Marry, Kill.”

"Stefan is so good to Elena and still people for some reason go crazy over Damon."

- Nina Dobrev on the Love Triangle.

"What makes her happy is Stefan."

- Nina Dobrev about Elena. "Elena is in love with Stefan. And she really was not searching, but it sort of came to her. He’s like this spirit, this person, this thing that fills the emptiness and the loss in her life."

- Nina Dobrev on who Elena is in love with.

"We want to make it as real as possible, and as genuine, and we want to make everyone fall in love with these characters and believe the love story. That’s what it’s about. It’s about Stefan and Elena’s undying love."

- Nina Dobrev on Stefan and Elena.

"It was this beautiful scene where Stefan takes Elena, and he picks her up and kisses her, and they go on the kitchen counter and things get kinda hot and heavy. But rather than sexualizing it, I decided to make it romantic. I pitched it to the writers — I was like ‘Guys, I think this should be romantic and not sexual,’ and they fell for it. Suckers!"

- Paul Wesley on TVD S2x14.

"There’s a lovely scene that we do at the lake house discussing that (the reality of Elena’s mortality). Touching lightly upon it without hitting you over the head, you know what I mean? It’s really kind of beautiful."

- Paul Wesley on S2x14.

"I know an epic love story when I see one, and I felt like Elena and Stefan had an epic love."

- Nina Dobrev on Stelena before her leave.

"Anything is possible but to my knowledge, at this point, her (Elena's) heart is strictly for Stefan. As Stefan's heart is strictly for Elena."

- Paul Wesley.

"Elena made a decision last season to be with Stefan because she loves him."

- Nina Dobrev on Elena in S3.

"I just want him in the end to find his love, that’s all he cares about. Of course I want him to end up with Elena. Cause I have to, that’s all I can hope for."

- Paul Wesley on Stefan.

"I'm gonna go with Stelena. Stefan went to the dark side to save her and everyone for the greater good."

- Nina Dobrev between Delena and Stelena. "I think Elena had a certain connection with Stefan that was very profound."

- Nina Dobrev S4 Interview. "Stefan is committed and loving and would do anything for her to protect her."

- Nina Dobrev on Elena and Stefan. "And.. I think Stefan is genuinely in love with Elena. Not to get sappy, but I think that counts for something."

- Paul Wesley on Stefan. "I think there's always gonna be this residual "I'm in love with you", but he respects her as a friend which is a very difficult and manly thing to do."

- Paul Wesley on Stefan and Elena. "Stefan and Elena have a history. They were in love, they were in a deep love, and I just think that at the end of the day, she recognizes that."

- Paul Wesley.

"They key to Stefan and Elena is time and distance."

- Paul Wesley on Stelena.

"The past two years, Paul and I have been working so closely almost every day, towards the beginning of the Season 3 we had absolutely no scenes together. So that was one of the first scenes where we’re actually working together again. When we locked eyes it really felt like we were locking eyes for the first time. But nothing was said everything was in the looks, the tension was built up so much, it was palpable, you can feel the love, fear, anxiety, the memories and history between the two."

- Nina Dobrev: Elena & Stefan “Trapped in the Closet” (3x03). "I think the Elena/Stefan storyline is an integral part of the show. I think their love is infinite."

- Paul Wesley TVFanatic Interview. "The fans [of Stefan & Elena] should definitely maintain some hope. The thing to remember is that Stefan and Elena have this love that is so strong, and it was sort of the core of Season 1 - you can’t entirely disregard that. The fans should definitely be aware of the fact that Stefan and Elena are very much a possibility."

- Paul Wesley on Stelena happening again.

"If Nina had never left, I would’ve loved to have been able to see if Stefan and Elena could've found their way back to each other."

- Julie Plec on Stefan and Elena.

"That’s a beautiful commitment in their relationship. It’s kind of like a monogamy commitment in a way. It’s a little cheesy and it’s very perverse, but I thought it was kind of beautiful and special. One very telling thing that he said two episodes ago was that he has something else to live for. The difference between last year and this year is last year he didn’t believe he deserved Elena’s love. Right now we’re at a place where Stefan has come to terms with some of his demons and is feeling very strong in his love for Elena and is confident that she loves him in spite of their current relationship problems. Stefan opens the closet door and he sees her, and they come face-to-face. It’s the strangest moment because she’s in his, like, murder board closet, but the way they look at each other… and you realize, ohmygod, these two have not seen each other in so long, and they love each other so much, and the look on his face… We know how much he needs her, how she’s what keeps him from falling over the edge, and he’s in this predicament: “Oh god, is she about to get caught? Am I about to get caught?” It’s just this powerful reunion that always makes me get a little teary."

- Julie Plec on Stefan and Elena.

"They (Stefan and Caroline) are sharing an experience of having to say goodbye to someone they care about who ultimately is Stefan's true love."

- Julie Plec about Elena.

"When the show first started I really liked.. I thought Stefan and Elena's storyline was very interesting and I really love that romance that they've.. I thought it was really special. Very beautiful. I think the show is sort of rooted itself in that romance. I think of that romance on kind with the kind of basis of The Vampire Diaries in many ways. Um.. Well, you know, once Nina left the show we needed to develop other relationships and I thought that this Stefan/Caroline relationship was pretty great. So, It's hard to compare the two because there is something interesting about Stefan and Caroline- friends sort of becoming romantic. It's completely different, I think the Stefan and Elena's storyline was a little bit more- kind of the HEART of the show."

- Paul Wesley on Stelena and Steroline.

"I feel like she has high morals. She loves Stefan and it's always been Stefan."

- Nina Dobrev on Elena.

"The moment when I really thought we had something special, was when Stefan and Elena met. I thought they were electric."

- Kevin Williamson on Stelena.

"What I sparked in the show, which made it very deep and personal, was Elena. She had just lost her parents. She was like this.. walking dead person. She felt dead inside. And along comes Stefan, who you know literally IS dead and looking for a way to come back to life. And these two people, these two souls, that were really, you know, out of breath, found each other and learned to breathe again. They fell madly in love. And from that this epic love story was born."

- Kevin Williamson.

"I'm a Stelena. I've gone on record as a Stelena. It's Stefan and Elena for me. That's who, in another universe, that's how I would have ended the show. However, we lost Elena in the sixth season."

- “Williamson then reveals in a shocking twist that initially he wanted to get Dobrev back for the entire final season, not just the last episode. Had she been able to return for all 16 episodes of Season 8, that would have changed the ending dramatically.”

"The bottom line is that Elena and Stefan are the true epic love story of the show. Damon is the third point of the triangle."

- Julie Plec.

"In my heart of hearts it’s Stefan & Elena forever on The Vampire Diaries. What Stefan did for Elena was the ultimate act of love. How can it not be Stefan and Elena?! It’s tragic love, but it’s love."

- Kevin Williamson on The Vampire Diaries Finale. "Eternal."

- Paul Wesley on Stefan and Elena's love. "She needs that sort of consistent love and protection and that's what Stefan gives to her."

- Nina Dobrev on Elena and Stefan.

"I'm telling you, all it takes is one shift in writing. All it takes is one intelligently shifted moment or new storyline to sort of diverge and — boom! — we're back on the Stefan and Elena train."

- Paul Wesley on TVD's Finale.

"It was very surreal to shoot the last scene with Nina Dobrev, but everything must come to an end one day or another. I never imagined that Stefan and Elena would end up like this, without love, without something romantic between them."

- Paul Wesley on the TVD finale.

"Don't hide from me."

- Paul Wesley (In 2022)

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Stelena is the most popular ship in The Vampire Diaries fandom, second only to Delena. Though many fans felt that even though Elena got together with Damon at the end of the series, their love wasn't quite as real as her and Stefan's. There is rivalry between Delena, Steroline and Stelena shippers.

Fans of the ship are intrigued with their love story. Not only is the ship popular because of it's "One True Love" theme, but also because of the couple's relationship dynamic. Stefan is deep and understanding, but has trouble controlling the dark part of himself, while Elena is compassionate and kind and was the light in his life. They were both supportive of each other and loved one another very deeply. Stefan had always respected Elena's decisions and had done anything he could to protect her, and even though they broke up later on, fans still believed mutual feelings had always remained between them.

Fans also think had Elena never turned into a vampire and been sired to Damon, she would've chosen Stefan in a heartbeat. Despite rivalry with Delena's and Steroline's, Stelena and Klaroline shippers have a positive relationship with each other's fandoms. Klaus and Caroline are also jokingly known as the "King and Queen of shipping Stelena" due to their many positive comments about Stefan and Elena's relationship on the show.

On AO3, Stelena is the third most written romantic ship besides Klaroline and Delena. It is the second most written ship for Elena and the number one most written for Stefan. It is Elena's second most popular ship, and Stefan's first.

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 * In an alternate dimension created by Markos, Elena is human and is happily married to her true love, Stefan Salvatore. It is revealed that they also have two children.
 * Stefan is a Scorpio and Elena is a Cancer. Astrologically, they are very compatible.
 * Caroline constantly commented on Elena and Stefan's relationship, and supported them over Elena and Damon.
 * Stefan tells Elena he will always love her in 3x18.
 * Many characters on the show have been open in their support of Stelena. That includes Klaus, Caroline, Silas, Jeremy, Bonnie, Rebekah, Lexi, Rose-Marie, Kai, Jenna and Matt.
 * Rebekah doubted that Stefan could love someone else the way he loved Elena.
 * Stefan and Elena's most popular songs are Cut, A Drop In The Ocean and Gravity.
 * Paul Wesley directed the episode where Stefan and Elena are married in an alternate dimension/have visions of each other.
 * Stefan has only referred to Elena as his true love.
 * Elena saved Stefan's life in The Vampire Diaries: The Struggle.
 * Nina Dobrev posted a Stelena edit on her Instagram story on April 17, 2020.
 * Many celebrities have said they supported Stelena. That includes Dinah Jane Hansen and Lauren Jauregui from Fifth Harmony, Torrey DeVitto, Steven R. McQueen, Ian Somerhalder, Nina Dobrev, Charles Michael Davis, Danielle Campbell, Daniella Pineda, Paul Wesley, Julie Plec, Kylie Jenner, Arielle Kebbel, Shaun White and Danielle Rose Russel.
 * Ian Somerhalder prefers Stelena over Delena.
 * The original ending of The Vampire Diaries would be Elena and Stefan ending up together had Nina Dobrev not left the show, said Kevin Williamson.
 * Nina Dobrev and Paul Wesley are Stelena fans and have supported the couple throughout the entire show. Paul and Nina are also very close friends in real life.
 * Stelena is the first and only ship name to ever be said on the show.
 * Elena told Damon the dream she had about the Alternate Dimension where she was married to Stefan, and called it her perfect life, a paradise, and everything her and Stefan wanted.
 * Paul Wesley's favorite scene from the entire series is when Elena and Stefan rekindle their relationship in The Turning Point, and when Elena finally gets to see the vampire side of Stefan.
 * Nina and Paul have supported Stelena ever since S1-S2. Paul Wesley also said that he was Pro Stelena.
 * Nina Dobrev tagged #Stelena on Twitter and Instagram multiple times when she'd post behind the scenes photos of her and Paul. During his birthday, she posted a picture of them with the caption “Happy birthday to my [only] Stefan [forever].”
 * In the Season 6 promotional poster for The Vampire Diaries, Stefan and Elena are holding hands.
 * Paul Wesley described Stefan and Elena's love as “Eternal.”
 * At Chicago Comic Con Paul Wesley said after re-watching Season 1 he shipped Stelena.
 * After the last episode of The Vampire Diaries, Nina Dobrev posted a picture of her and Paul Wesley and tagged it #Stelena.
 * Legacies Writers official Twitter account referenced a Stelena episode and song in their tweet on April 8, 2022. Legacies Writers also liked a Stelena tweet.