Flexible

Flexible is the het ship between Bob Parr and Helen Parr from The Incredibles fandom.

Canon
Both Mr. Incredible and Elastigirl are golden age Supers, who are believed to have met and fell in-love on the job. It is hinted that Mr. Incredible had asked Elastigirl to marry him, sometime before the events of the Pixar film. From how it opens up on the very day of their wedding. That Bob believed he'll still be able to make, after his police scanner informed him of trouble. Elastigirl was shown to have the same idea, from how she was there to help Mr. Incredible catch a thief. Even though he informs her that he works alone and he has everything under control. While Elastigirl tells him that he needs to be more flexible, before leaving for the "previous engagement" she has. Mr. Incredible ended up running late to the wedding, but was still able to do the vows. Helen was a little upset that he late and tells him that while she loves him, she needs him to be more than just Mr. Incredible if their marriage is to work. After their first kiss as husband and wife, Bob believed that them being Supers meant that nothing could go wrong for them.

Even though Mr. Incredible said in an interview that he would like to settle and raise a family, while Elastigirl stated that she'll never do such a thing, until all Supers were forced to retire and were outlawed. As Helen adjusted to married wife after their kids were born, while Bob was struggling to normal life and longed for the days he was allowed to help people as a hero. Because Helen had excepted that part of their lives was over, Bob was forced to hide his secret Super acts from her. Even though she is aware of it and scolds him for doing, as it leads to their covers being blown and having to relocate. Bob being unhappy with civilian life had caused him and Helen to be out of sink during dinner conversions. While Helen wants Bob to be happy with his insurance job, as it still has him helping people without breaking the Super banned law. Along with wanting her husband to be part of their children's life in the present, rather than trying to relive the glory days of the past

After he got fired from his job Bob didn't want to tell Helen, from how he how offered a chance to be Mr. Incredible again. Helen had tried to get Bob to put for his office for dinner, while he was being given the offer. While telling his wife that the voice she heard was the TV and had he wanted to finish watching it, before joining them. This got Helen to assume that Bob is a distracted person. She also knows that while he hates his job, him staying at it meant a lot to her. With his "new job" being top secret, Bob tells Helen that the insurance company was sending him to a conference as a cover story. The lie makes Helen believe that Bob was doing well at his job and is happy for him.

Being back in the hero game filled Bob with joy and began to act like the husband and father Helen wants him to be. With Bob working to lose weight and is making much more money, that allowed him to buy new cars for the both of them. Helen didn't suspect anything was wrong, until she noticed a silver hair strand on one of his suits and leaves the house after getting a call from another woman. Bob saying the caller was from the conference when she asked him who it was, while leaving out the part that she had listened to part of the call. Soon after Helen saw the patch job on his old hero suit and then learns that he was fired from the insurance company two months ago, her fear of him having an affair behind her back grew. With was encouragement with Edna, who gets Helen to see that Bob was keeping secrets from her, Helen decided to go looking for him. Thanks to the new homing device Edna placed in his new suit, that she had also made matching sets for the rest of their family.

Once Mr. Incredible discovered what his fan was up to and came across the fields he has on other Supers, Mr. Incredible checks the file he has on Elastigirl to see if they knew who and where she is. He was revealed to see that they didn't and that she was currently safe from them. From how he lost the last "test subject" for the robot that is set to attack the city close to their home. Helen unknowingly got her husband captured when she activated his suit's homing device. When Syndrome informs Mr. Incredible of the comment plain heading towards the island, he had no idea that his wife and children were on it until he heard her voice over the transmission. He begged Syndrome to call off the missiles, but he refused to put of spite. Making Mr. Incredible believe that his family was dead after hearing Mirage tell Syndrome that the plain was destroyed. While Elastigirl and the kids had managed to survive and the attack on them has Elastigirl realising that her husband is in danger. She goes searching for him, after leaving her kids to hide in a cave.

By the time she reached his sell, she catches him hugging another woman. Who had just freed Mr. Incredible and given him the news that his family is alive. To show Elastigirl that it wasn't what she thought and that he loves her, he pulls his angry wife into a kiss and then tells her that he could never betray the perfect woman. The two then go to find their kids, after learning that they have triggered the interior alert. Elastigirl scolds her husband for lying to her for the last two months, while Mr. Incredible tells her that he is sorry and that he is glad that she is alive. After they found their kids, Mr. Incredible and Elastigirl reconnected as they thought the guards, as it brought back the energy that brought them together. Even though they all got captured by Syndrome, Elastigirl lets her husband share his thoughts of not noticing what he has, before letting him know that Violet is free and will be freeing the rest of them.

The thought that he had lost them had Mr. Incredible not wanting to lose them again. That is why he wanted to face Syndrome's alone, not because he works alone or wants to relive the glory days. Elastigirl responds to his confession by kissing him. To show her husband that he doesn't have to do things anymore and together they are strong. Elastigirl's point gets proven as they use teamwork, as well as his experience with the robot to save the city. Elastigirl makes sure that they have a clear shot for Mr. Incredible's plan to destroy it.

When it looked like Supers would be welcome back, the two learn the hard way that people still don't want them. Resulting in Helen to carry on living civilian lives like they have done for years, while Bob still hangs onto the hope that Supers will be made legal again. The couple tried to be strong after being relocated to a hotel and learning that the program that watched Super's back was being shut down. As the two wonder what to do next after losing their home and the suits that either of them would need for future job interviews, Frozone informs them of the man who wants to bring Supers back. Elastigirl agreed to go with her husband to only hear Winston Deavor has to has, but has no intention to get back into the hero game. While Bob was upset that the Deavors wanted her instead of him, he convinced her to expect their officer. With the promise that he'll watch the kids, so he too can be a hero again after his wife opens the door for all Supers. Otherwise they'll be homeless in the little time they have to find work. Realising that her husband was right, she expects Winston's job offer, that came with a new house.

Bob was surprised to learn to his wife had a bike before they met, but Helen reassures him that he didn't miss much from those days. Even though Bob was struggling to take of the things Helen was worried and wanted to help the kids with, he tells her that everything is fine. Even though he wasn't too keen of her spotlight out shinning his and would rather be out there where the action is. He still wanted Helen to finish what he convinced her to do, or he'll never get to be a hero again. Thinking more about himself and was willing to solider on, until Supers are legal again. He also wanted to prove to his wife that he can look after their kids, from how Helen was prepared to drop out of the mission when she assumed that the kids need her than him. Hurting his man pride.

Moments

 * Mr. Incredible and Elastigirl have a brief back seat drive couple moment.

Children
Violet Parr

Dash Parr

Jack-Jack Parr

Fanon
The ship between Bob x Helen Parr, aka Mr. Incredible x Elastigirl, is the main het ship of the whole Incredibles fandom. As well as it being one of the top ten canon ships from the Pixar fandom. Next to Viony, another popular canon ships from the franchise, that is why these two ships are sometimes seen in the same fanfic. People also like to view the two Supers one of the most popular parent couples/characters from a Pixar film. The popularity of the ship grew after Incredibles 2 came out. The ship's biggest rivals are Bobucius and Hevelyn.

On AO3, the ship has 176+ fanfics.

Fandom
FAN FICTION
 * Bob/Helen on FanFiction.Net
 * Bob/Helen on FanFiction.Net

WIKI
 * https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Mr._Incredible/Relationships#Elastigirl

Trivia

 * In an earlier version of the first film, Supers weren't allowed to marry each other or have kids. Making their marriage and daughter an violation of that law. Which might be why the two had planned to retire and live a normal life after they got married.
 * The Lego video game of the Incredibles films had showcased photos of their wedding, after the I dos.